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<rss version="2.0"><channel><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"/><description>a girl after your own heart.</description><title>monalisa*</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @heymonalisa)</generator><link>http://heymonalisa.com/</link><item><title>bookworm slim, part I.</title><description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;1. Do you snack while you read? If so, favorite reading snack?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;em&gt;I don’t like to. I hate getting crap all over the pages.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2. What is your favorite drink while reading?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;em&gt;I’m not that hardcore, but why not. Gimme a glass of sangria.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3. Do you tend to mark your books as you read, or does the idea of writing in books horrify you?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;em&gt;It used to horrify me until I got into active reading. If it’s a reference book or really philosophical, I’ll usually add my notes or underline.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/em&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4. How do you keep your place while reading a book? Bookmark? Dog-ear? Laying the book flat open?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;em&gt;Random scraps of paper. Or business cards &amp; an NYC metro card. I don’t know why, but dog-earing irks me.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;5. Fiction, Non-Fiction, or Both?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;em&gt;Both. Especially simultaneously. Good balance.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/em&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;6. Are you a person who tends to read to the end of a chapter, or can you stop anywhere?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;em&gt;I’m slightly obsessed with finishing a chapter, especially with fiction.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;7. Are you a person to throw a book across the room or on the floor if the author irritates you?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;em&gt; I’ve never experienced that type of response from a book. Maybe I need to break out my comfort zone.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;8. If you come across an unfamiliar word, do you stop and look it up right away?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;em&gt;If my ipod or dictionary is near me, I always try to. I love learning new words. If not, I use context or underline it for later.&lt;/em&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;book survey by way of &lt;a href="http://seaponies.tumblr.com/post/867558690/book-survey"&gt;seaponies&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/875273615</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/875273615</guid><pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 07:01:44 -0700</pubDate><category>kos</category><category>literature</category><category>thoughts</category></item><item><title>“well, if a girl answers, don’t hang up.just talk...</title><description>&lt;embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="http://heymonalisa.com/swf/audio_player.swf?audio_file=http://www.tumblr.com/audio_file/873236166/tumblr_l68jlpwMTa1qz8qai&amp;color=FFFFFF" height="27" width="207" quality="best"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span&gt;“well, if a girl answers, don’t hang up.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;just talk about her!” - &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span&gt;vanity 6&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;this song is the shit. prince is hilarious. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/873236166</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/873236166</guid><pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 19:13:45 -0700</pubDate><category>lolol</category><category>music</category><category>reminisce</category></item><item><title>i kinda miss “family business”.they’re such a...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://26.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l68jbjmb3Q1qz8qaio1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;i kinda miss “family business”.&lt;br/&gt;they’re such a cute family. &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/871997680</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/871997680</guid><pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 13:13:43 -0700</pubDate><category>media</category><category>xoxo</category></item><item><title>quiet as kept.</title><description>&lt;p&gt;yesterday, i handed out keys to doors i had kept locked away for the past decade.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;i confessed my love &amp; acceptance for the one that got away. i admitted wrongs &amp; leftover guilt to my right hand. i shared my fears &amp; paranoia with a confidante.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;i revealed my “number” to a lover along with a dozen stories from my past, and watched as he painfully absorbed years &amp; years of heartache, naiveté, mistrust, shame &amp; confusion. experiments in all types of conditional love - from self-serving to unrequited - on a quest for the unconditional.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;instead of finally convincing him that i’m as fcked up as i’ve proclaimed to be, he finally understood my extremes of aversion &amp; surrender, sympathizing over my misguidance. encouraging the type of forgiveness i’d never allowed myself or anyone else.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;i admit it feels odd traveling without my emotional cargo, but peace-of-mind is the perfect carry-on.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/870843432</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/870843432</guid><pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 07:12:42 -0700</pubDate><category>kos</category><category>life</category><category>love</category><category>relationships</category></item><item><title>taken @ coloft.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l66sfw3ic11qz8qaio1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;taken @ &lt;a href="http://www.coloft.com"&gt;coloft&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/868208073</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/868208073</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 17:10:45 -0700</pubDate><category>kos</category><category>$</category></item><item><title>...or so she says.</title><description>&lt;p&gt;i’m quickly approaching 25…a number that can’t be divided in half, thankfully. i feel like i’ve taken pride in splitting my life in half. like a fckn horcrux (harry potter, reference. move along, there’s nothing to see here).&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;being born on the cusp between leo &amp; virgo. being  being bicoastal. (struggling at) being bilingual. being left brained &amp; right brained. being a freelancer &amp; corporate workerbee. i even tried to train myself to be ambidextrous when i was little.  i had a whole composition notebook dedicated to left-handwriting.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;i long to feel as one whole, crisp dollar again. instead of two sides of an invaluable coin in a pocket full of spare change. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;for once, i’d love to be indivisible. just me. not divided by 2, 3 or multiples of 5.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;almost…&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/866858553</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/866858553</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 11:02:44 -0700</pubDate><category>kos</category><category>reflection</category><category>rhetoric</category></item><item><title>live the phrase “sky’s the limit.”</title><description>&lt;object width="400" height="326"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/ktDeFS8KZPs&amp;rel=0&amp;egm=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="wmode" value="transparent"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/ktDeFS8KZPs&amp;rel=0&amp;egm=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" height="326" allowFullScreen="true" wmode="transparent"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;live the phrase “sky’s the limit.”&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/866115493</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/866115493</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Jul 2010 07:00:43 -0700</pubDate><category>kos</category><category>music</category><category>reminisce</category><category>mut</category></item><item><title>“behavior” describes any action an organism takes to...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l66s9sotcT1qz8qaio1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;“behavior” describes any action an organism takes to change the relationship to its environment.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;so this is me, behaving.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/863912846</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/863912846</guid><pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 19:07:47 -0700</pubDate><category>kos</category></item><item><title>gintel x me.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://27.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l5z9qrQ8sM1qz8qaio1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://gintel.tumblr.com/"&gt;gintel&lt;/a&gt; x me.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/863030700</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/863030700</guid><pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 15:03:46 -0700</pubDate><category>reminisce</category><category>xoxo</category></item><item><title>what keeps me grounded.</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l5z9n7Bu8u1qz8qaio1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;what keeps me grounded.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/862167425</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/862167425</guid><pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 11:02:45 -0700</pubDate><category>kos</category><category>xoxo</category></item><item><title>"“Everyone must leave something in the room or left behind when he dies, my grandfather said. A..."</title><description>“&lt;p&gt;“Everyone must leave something in the room or left behind when he dies, my grandfather said. A child or a book or a painting or a house or a wall built or a pair of shoes made. Or a garden planted. Something your hand touched some way so your soul has somewhere to go when you die, and when people look at that tree or that flower you planted, you’re there. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;It doesn’t matter what you do, he said, so long as you change something from the way it was before you touched it into something that’s like you after you take your hands away. &lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;The difference between the man who just cuts lawns and a real gardener is in the touching, he said. The lawn-cutter might just as well not have been there at all; the gardener will be there a lifetime.”&lt;/p&gt;”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt; Fahrenheit 451&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/861430148</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/861430148</guid><pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2010 07:00:42 -0700</pubDate><category>kos</category><category>literature</category><category>life</category></item><item><description>&lt;embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="http://heymonalisa.com/swf/audio_player.swf?audio_file=http://www.tumblr.com/audio_file/859243629/tumblr_l5z6xc0l2p1qz8qai&amp;color=FFFFFF" height="27" width="207" quality="best"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;img height="600" width="1018" src="http://dynastyseries.com/wp-content/2010/03/Ksz-Taty1.jpg"/&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/859243629</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/859243629</guid><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jul 2010 19:07:42 -0700</pubDate><category>music</category><category>xoxo</category></item><item><title>this is what happens when you stop taking life so seriously. :)</title><description>&lt;object type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" height="225" data="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=12182716&amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;fullscreen=1&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=0&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=00ADEF"&gt;&lt;param name="quality" value="best" /&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /&gt;&lt;param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /&gt;&lt;param name="scale" value="showAll" /&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=12182716&amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;fullscreen=1&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=0&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=00ADEF" /&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=12182716&amp;server=www.vimeo.com&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=0&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=00ADEF&amp;fullscreen=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="400" height="225"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;this is what happens when you stop taking life so seriously. :)&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/858412435</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/858412435</guid><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jul 2010 15:05:42 -0700</pubDate><category>music</category><category>xoxo</category></item><item><title>and the award for best tumblr name goes to...</title><description>&lt;a href="http://dontquityourgayjob.tumblr.com"&gt;and the award for best tumblr name goes to...&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;p&gt;dontquityourgayjob.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/857631133</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/857631133</guid><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jul 2010 11:04:42 -0700</pubDate><category>lolol</category></item><item><title>the sims 3: late night.
sure it’s a recycled expansion...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l633u7HgPk1qz8qaio1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;the sims 3: late night.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;sure it’s a recycled expansion pack but needless to say…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;can’t fckn wait.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/856946775</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/856946775</guid><pubDate>Sun, 25 Jul 2010 07:00:42 -0700</pubDate><category>gaming</category><category>xoxo</category></item><item><title>by way of lucilletwo via shoesgasm</title><description>&lt;img src="http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l615onu9H81qaeq40o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;by way of &lt;a href="http://lucilletwo.tumblr.com/post/853577328/via-shoesgasm"&gt;lucilletwo&lt;/a&gt; via &lt;a href="http://shoesgasm.tumblr.com/"&gt;shoesgasm&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/854818809</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/854818809</guid><pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 19:39:43 -0700</pubDate><category>$</category><category>style</category><category>xoxo</category></item><item><title>by way of fuckyeahamywinehouse</title><description>&lt;img src="http://28.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l5e7gtnBQX1qzggzso1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;by way of &lt;a href="http://fuckyeahamywinehouse.tumblr.com/post/853800570/via-fuckyeahmarkronson"&gt;fuckyeahamywinehouse&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/853946017</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/853946017</guid><pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 15:39:00 -0700</pubDate><category>xoxo</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l5z5swErjw1qz8qaio1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/853906226</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/853906226</guid><pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 15:27:42 -0700</pubDate><category>xoxo</category></item><item><title>“i got my feet on the ground&amp; i don’t go to...</title><description>&lt;object width="400" height="254"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/L9Wnh0V4HMM&amp;rel=0&amp;egm=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;fs=1"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="wmode" value="transparent"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/L9Wnh0V4HMM&amp;rel=0&amp;egm=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" height="254" allowFullScreen="true" wmode="transparent"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;“i got my feet on the ground&lt;br/&gt;&amp; i don’t go to sleep to dream.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;- fiona &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/853490176</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/853490176</guid><pubDate>Sat, 24 Jul 2010 11:15:46 -0700</pubDate><category>kos</category><category>music</category></item><item><title>"The good writers touch life often. The mediocre ones run a quick hand over her. The bad ones rape..."</title><description>““The good writers touch life often. The mediocre ones run a quick hand over her. The bad ones rape her and leave her for the flies.””&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt; Farenheit 451&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://heymonalisa.com/post/852055279</link><guid>http://heymonalisa.com/post/852055279</guid><pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 19:23:46 -0700</pubDate><category>kos</category><category>life</category></item></channel></rss>
